do you want to reignite your relationship?
In our program couples will go from feeling like roommates who live parallel lives to feeling deeply connected and able to communicate without being caught up in a conflict negative cycle.
Can you imagine feeling more deeply and intimately connected to your partner in only 3 months!? We have created a 12 week power couple coaching group to give you the best chance of creating positive change in your relationship.
Growing up in the Caribbean, we were not privy to see many examples of happy, healthy marriages. I remember being so disenchanted with the idea of marriage because a thriving marriage seemed so elusive. When we got married, we made a vow to not have an unfulfilling marriage. This meant we had to do the work to safeguard and strengthen our relationship to ensure we didn’t become a divorce statistic.
INTRODUCING authentic marriage!
this is our story
This passion to have a happy and healthy marriage, set the ball in motion for us to create a community for marriages to thrive. We believe the best gift we can give our children is a spiritually and emotionally healthy home. This is how Authentic Marriages was born. We are on a mission to help couples in our community build thriving relationships that would be a model for their children for generations to come.
we knew something had to change
"we became the change we wanted to see"
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conflict cyle
emotional connection
sexual Intimacy
Tame the Negative Conflict Cycle
Restore Emotional Connection
Recharge Sexual Intimacy
Can you relate?
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do you feel alone?
One of the worst experiences is feeling alone in a marriage! Do you feel rejected and unappreciated? Do you have unmet need? Do you feel like your partner is selfish or does not care?
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overwhelmed by conflict?
The negative conflict cycle can create feelings of disconnection disconnection with overwhelming emotions. You both are left licking your wounds in separate corners by yourselves.
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small things turn into big arguments
Sometimes what should be relatively simple conversations, blows up into something big! You may act out of character when things get really bad.
what if we told you there was a better way...
What if I told you it is possible to feel emotionally connected to your partner? To not have constant cycles of disconnection or conflict ...But instead feel connected, appreciated, seen and valued?
Imagine what it would feel like to wake up next to your partner and no longer feel like roommates living lives parallel lives. Feeling emotionally safe and secure!
introducing...
MARRIAGE REGINITE!
in this program
YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO
Feelings of disconnection lead to a fury of negative emotions that fuel conflict. Stop this negative tailspin and learn to communicate effectively so you both feel seen and heard.
tame the conflict cyle
Being emotionally disconnected leaves you feeling rejected and lonely in your marriage. Build a healthy foundation for love to grow and thrive. Reconnect and have fun again!
RESTORE emotional connection
REIGNITE
SEXUAL intimacy
You long to feel sexually connected and intimate. Begin your sexual healing journey by deepening your emotional connection and building a mutually satisfying sexual relationship.
YOU WILL ALSO LEARN
How to forgive and heal past relationship wounds. Rebuild broken trust and learn to feel safe again.
Deepen the emotional connection you feel between you and your partner, like you first did when you got married.
Appropriately deal with difficult triggers and emotions without hurting each other in the process.
Understand and communicate your emotions and core needs to your partner without getting emotionally flooded
IS THIS COURSE FOR YOU?
No
Couples who are NOT in a committed, monogamous relationship.
Couples in a physically abusive relationship or with an active addiction or ongoing affair.
Couples who are not committed to doing the emotional work of the program or who are too busy to invest in their marriage.
YES
Couples who feel like roommates, living parallel lives and are ready to feel emotionally connected again.
Couples who want to learn to communicate more effectively and stop the negative cycle.
Couples who want to heal relationship trauma (e.g. past affairs) in order to restore their relationship and rebuild trust.
PAY IN FULL
12 WEEKLY PAYMENTS
YOU WILL GET
SO MUCH TRANSFORMATIVE tools!
How to understand and tame the negative cycle
How to reignite passion and intimacy in your marriage
How to restore trust and emotional safety in your relationship
"Jared and Kaara are my favorite marriage missionaries. They love God and marriage and they are always wanting and willing to help others in their covenant marriage process."
Christina Tinsley
Business Ownwer
our signature framework
Let's see what's inside
module 1
Understanding love and attachment
module 2
Deepening your emotional connection
module 3
Understanding Triggers and Trauma
module 4
Coping with difficult emotions
Let's take a detailed look into each module...
module 1
Understanding Love & Attachment
Attachment styles are at the root of how we show up in our relationships and deal with conflict. Our early childhood experiences shape our attachment styles and can positively or negatively impact how well we do in romantic relationships. Understanding your attachment style is the first step in creating a secure bond.
Discover the four attachment styles so you can connect on a deeper level
Identify your attachment style and how it impacts the way you navigate conflict
Learn practical tips to move towards a secure attachment
Understand your partner's attachment style and how it impacts your relationship
module 2
Deepening Your Connection
The foundation of any relationship is friendship. In this module, you will learn practical tips for building a secure relationship foundation. At the end of this module you will have a realistic plan of what daily engagement and connection will look like for your unique relationship.
Build a solid friendship so you can create a strong foundation necessary for growing your relationship.
Implement daily check-ins so you can create small moments of connection.
Practice "love conversations" so you can experience positive feelings consistently
Create a realistic plan of what daily engagement and connection will look like.
module 3
Understanding Trauma & Triggers
Many negative experiences often go unnoticed I n how I t affected your brain and shaped how you navigate the world. In this module you will learn about the impact of trauma and how you are subconsciously triggered I n your relationship by things that predated your relationship.
understand the impact of trauma has on your brain
Uncover the negative story that shows up when you are triggered
Identify the root cause of your triggers and effectively communicate them to your partner
Create a new positive narrative that will heal the negative effects of trauma
Emotions are powerful and can often leave us feeling stressed, overwhelmed and deflated if not managed well. Emotions are powerful and can often leave us stressed and overwhelmed if not managed well. In this module, couples will learn emotional regulation skills to help manage difficult emotions.
Identify and understand your emotions
Learn how to co-regulate each other so you can reduce conflict
Coping with Difficult Emotions
module 4
Successfully manage difficult and overwhelming emotions
Practice taking a time-out to regulate emotions during conflict
module 5
Healing Through Story Drawing
At this point couples will have an understanding of their attachment styles, traumas they have experienced, and how to manage difficult emotions. Now it’s time to dive deeper into healing some of those triggers!
Practice trauma therapeutic techniques to reduce your sensitivity towards triggers
Create a safe space to discuss your deeper hurts and fears with your partner
Reduce negative emotions associated with past trauma
Heal past relationship hurts so you can finally move on without bringing up the past
module 6
Identifying and Stopping the Negative Cycle
Your negative cycle is the dance of disconnection you often get caught up in. This cycle is never helpful to the relationship. When you are able to identify and STOP this disconnection cycle, you can replace it with something more helpful. A new “dance” that fosters connection, intimacy and strengthens your bond as a couple.
Identify the patterns in your negative conflict cycle
Take accountability for your role in the negative cycle
See the negative cycle as the enemy and not your partner so you can stop the blame game
Learn to change your behavior in n the cycle so you can create amore secure bond
module 7
Identify Past Relationship Hurts
Relational injuries are emotional triggers we have from present or prior relationships, sensitivities from temperament, attachment injuries. When our raw spots are triggered it creates a sense of helplessness and causes us to feel deprived, deserted and rejected.
Protect your relationship by healing past relationship hurts
Communicate your relationship hurts to your partner so that you can deepen trust for each other
Learn how to soothe your partner's raw spots so that you can become a safe place for each other
Discover greater awareness of your partner's raw spots so you can respond with compassion and empathy
This week couples will integrate what we they have learnt in the program. You will focus on repairing rifts, rising above the negative cycle, reframing the cycle as the enemy (not your partner). Couples will learn to take personal responsibility for their healing.
Reframe the negative cycle as the enemy so that you can create emotional safety
practice discussing a challenging moment I n your life with your partner so you can experience healing
Revisiting a Challenging Moment
module 8
Take personal responsibility for your healing so that you can move towards your partner instead of away
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module 9
Create A New Bond
When couples are able to stop the disconnection cycle they can replace it with a positive cycle that creates safety and connection. Couples will be able to tune in to their deeper emotions and share fears with their partners. Partners will be able to stay positively engaged without being triggered and spiraling into a cycle. Couples will be able to share their deeper needs in a way that helps their partner to respond positively.
Beging to see conflict as an opportunity to grow closer together
Turn moments of disconnection into bonding conversations that foster intimacy and connection
Build a positive bonding cycle so that the conflict cycle slows down and occurs less frequently
Access emotional regulation skills and remain flexible so you can grow trust and create a safe place in your relationship
module 10
Forgive Injuries
In any relationship we will hurt each other. How we deal with these hurts is what matters. The key to a successful relationship is good relationship repair. In this week’s session, couples will learn the steps to forgive relationship injuries and learn that under their partner’s reactive anger is sadness and/or fear.
Effectively communicate past relationship hurts
Understand the depth of your partner's pain so you can finally let go of the heartache
Create a safe space for your partner to express their deepest hurt
Understand why relationship I injuries occurred so that. you can prevent them
module 11
Sexual Intimacy
Couples find how emotional connection creates great sex, and good sex creates deeper emotional connection. Couples will have access to a pre-recorded Sex Workshop facilitated by a sex therapist. We will break down common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and sexual intimacy.
Create healthy expectations about sex
identify common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex
understand how emotional connection creates great sex and how good sex deepens emotional connection
Practice mindfully based exercises so you can accentuate the pleasure and I ntimacy
This last session is built on the understanding that love is a continual process of losing and finding emotional connection; it asks couples to be deliberate and mindful about maintaining connection.
Celebrate your process so you can witness the growth you have made
Develop and action plan to keep your emotional connection alive
Keeping Love Alive
module 12
Complete a couples assessment so that you can identify future goals
Take deliberate steps to maintain the connection with each other
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but wait there's more
four week
BONUS module
Moving Forward
Now it's time to put everything you've learned into practice and continue reigniting your relationship! But you wont have to do this alone! We'll be here to provide continued support over the next four weeks/
Bonus men's/women's session
weekly check-in calls for four weeks to support your implementation plan
Have continued accountability and support
Overcome obstacles that may stand in your way of maintaining progress
Fast Action Bonuses
register in 24 hours & receive...
One-on-One Coaching session to be used anytime throughout the group. Limited to the first 5 couples! Value $500
Access to Our Online Courses for 6 months
Group chat text support for an additional 3 months. For a total of 6 months
OVER $11,000 WORTH
$11,500
$3,500
$1,500
$5,000
$1,500
total value
Men's only and Women's only sessions
Direct access to us via whatsapp throughout the group
Access to our online courses
12 weeks of LIVE group coaching for 90 minutes each week
SUPPORT
TO HELP YOU Get to your goals
men's & WOMEN'S group
Men's & Women's only sessions throughout the group for additional processing.
ONLINE courses
6 Month Access to our online courses on communication, sex, and forgiveness.
whatsapp chat
Men and Women Whatsapp Group Chat. Ask any questions during the course of the group and receive a direct response.
"If you’re a Beautiful couple experiencing life with a common goal. Fulfilling God’s Covenant for marriage is your goal as well. Sign up today for anything this couple puts out."
e. flagler
MEET YOUR facilitaros
We have been together for 22 years and happily married for 17 years! We have two energetic kids ages 8 and 10
Born and raised in the Caribbean (Jamaica and Trinidad), we now call Atlanta GA “home”
Dr. Jared Kiddoe is a double boarded Adult, Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist and Relationship Coach
Kaara is a Licensed Clinician Social Worker and Relationship Coach with expertise in healing emotional trauma and relationships
what makes us different
We have a unique skill set as a husband-wife team. We both are trained mental health processionals in the best couples therapy approach - Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). The research shows that EFT is the most effective couples therapy in the world! Additionally my training in trauma therapy (EMDR) is an added bonus to the curriculum. We have taken the best evidenced-based modalities and combined it to create a highly effective program. You will not find another program like this, presented by two licensed clinicians! We have over twenty years of combined experience helping couples and families!
Dr.jared kidde has over 15 years of professional experience as a psychiatrist
what happens
ONCE YOU REGISTER
fill out application
Complete the application tonight to qualify for the bonus
Once we receive your application we will schedule a FREE consultation
schedule consultation
receive acceptance
or referral
After reviewing your application and consultation we will notify you by email of your acceptance or referral
the lovely things they say
OUR CLIENTS
From the Group Sessions to the Couples Retreat, Authentic Marriages has done a great job with creating experiences that challenge us in ways that foster growth. We appreciate the many different platforms that Authentic Marriages leverages to reach couples.
B. DAVIS
Authentic Marriages provides a safe platform and tools to build your forever relationship. Kaara and Jared are fiercely committed to aiding couples in building their individual, “authentic” marriages. By the way, there’s always good fun and great food! #Aruba
LAWYER
D. laing
Authentic marriages is just that, real, raw, organic... Authentic! If you're looking for a place to save your marriage and even yourself as an individual in a marriage don't short yourself by passing on this organization! You're welcome!
N.ALLEN
REAL ESTATE AGENT
In 2020, we started attending the Zoom workshops. This led us to the Aruba retreat and all I can say is WOW. Jared and Kaara are relatable, insightful, and truly interested in supporting healthy marriages. They provided evidence-based techniques and a shared language to help couples push past the everyday barriers to intimacy.
J. Holmes
Entrepreneur/Business Owner
introducing...
MARRIAGE REGINITE!
PAY IN FULL
12 WEEKLY PAYMENTS
FAQ
Isn't individual couples therapy better than group?
This is perhaps the biggest misconception! There is a magical element that group sessions offer that can NEVER be replicated in individual therapy. Groups advances the process of relationship improvement because seeing your struggles reflected in other couples provides you with additional insights and healing.
Would this program work if we are contemplating divorce?
We have had couples who have not only contemplated divorce but contacted attorneys! The program works once you are COMMITTED to showing up and doing the work!
Would I have to share private maters with a group of strangers?
What you share and how much you share is up to you. However the group will learn and benefit from your shared experience! We are often afraid of sharing because we fear being judged. However we create a safe space to ensure everyone's experiences are validated.
I know for a fact my partner has major trauma. Wouldn't individual therapy be best for my partner?
While we will fully recommend someone seeking healing for their trauma, your relationship and how you navigate your partner's trauma impacts your conflict cycle. As much as we think it's one person, it takes two to tango! The fact that you can identify your partner's trauma suggest that it impacts your relationship.
FAQ
We are already in couples therapy, should we wait?
This program does not contraindicate couples therapy. It will in fact boost the results you are likely to see in couples therapy and push you further ahead. Couples therapy is a slow process will take an average of 6-12 months for you to see similar benefits compared to what the group offers in 3 months!
We have tried everything, why would this work?
Most times when couples feel they have TRIED EVERYTHING they have exerted a lot of energy "trying" but getting "no where." If you were given the wrong tools to begin with then of course it would not work! Not all therapists are properly trained in couples therapy. And a lot of coaches teach you what worked for them with no scientific backing of evidenced based research.
I am a very private person, how would this work for someone like me?
Yes! It is normal to feel apprehensive to share with a group of strangers. But we do an amazing job of creating a safe space. We also have opportunities for you to share your feedback privately via our weekly check-in forms.
I am willing to work but I don't know if my partner is willing. Would this still work?
If you are willing to put in the work then there is no way your partner will not feel a shift in your relationship. Often these shifts can cause your partner to "wake up" and feel motivated to I invest. However we see the best results when both people are committed.
FAQ
Do you offer refunds?
We do not offer refunds but will work with you to ensure you have the best results. We require potential clients to go through a thorough screening process to ensure this programis the right fit for your current needs.
When does the program start?
We will start August or early September. We will meet Mondays at 8PM EST. We will take breaks during any holidays such as Thanksgiving and Christmas.
What if I miss a Live call?
All your calls will be recorded and confidentially shared directly to you via a private link to watch within a week. It is important you do not fall behind and watch the replay within the week.
Who is this program for?
If you are in a serious dating relationship, engaged or married, this program will benefit you. We highly recommend this program to engaged couples to build a healthy foundation before marriage.
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